Dave Asprey: Biohacking Secrets to Eliminate the Energy Drains Sabotaging Your Success | Mental Health | E412
Dave Asprey’s health was collapsing by the time he reached Silicon Valley. After hitting 300 pounds in college, he battled chronic fatigue, brain fog, arthritis, and pain, often forcing himself through work when he could barely think. He has since spent around $2.5 million to restore his wellness and upgrade his biology, learning along the way that long-term success depends on protecting energy, not pushing through with willpower. Today, having generated more than $1 billion in revenue across his ventures, he applies those principles to run a portfolio of eight companies. In this episode, Dave shares how entrepreneurs can eliminate triggers to think more clearly, perform at a higher level, and build lasting success without sacrificing their health.
In this episode, Hala and Dave will discuss:
(00:00) Introduction
(00:00) Is the New Normal Unhealthy?
(07:08) Dave’s Health Crisis and Biohacking Breakthrough
(19:12) The Five Fs That Drive Your Energy
(25:17) The Four Types of People in Business
(34:29) Emotional Triggers That Distort Leadership
(45:43) The Link Between Gratitude and Forgiveness
(48:18) Toxic Empathy and Generational Trauma
(56:57) Psychedelics, Trauma, and Emotional Healing
(01:08:38) How Forgiveness Frees Up Your Energy
(01:15:48) How Junk Light Drains Your Energy
(01:17:17) Dave’s Biggest Biohacking Confessions
Dave Asprey is an entrepreneur and four-time New York Times bestselling author widely known as the “father of biohacking.” He is the CEO of Upgrade Labs and the founder of Bulletproof Coffee, Danger Coffee, TrueDark, and 40 Years of Zen. Dave also hosts The Human Upgrade, a Webby Award-winning podcast focused on biohacking, human performance, and longevity. His latest book, Heavily Meditated, is a guide to removing your triggers, dissolving stress, and activating inner peace.
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Hala Taha: Dave, welcome to Young and Profiting podcast.
Dave Asprey: I'm so happy to be here. I love entrepreneurship.
Hala Taha: I am very happy that you're here.
This is the third time you've been on YAP. First time in person, though. Yeah. So I feel super honored that we get to be in the same space, and I just can't wait to pick your brain. I've, like, looked up to you, especially in this biohacking space, for such a long time.
Dave Asprey: Thank you, and it's, it's all because you moved to the best city, Austin.
Hala Taha: Yeah. Austin is amazing. So I, I wanted to kind of open this up with a frame of is the normal that we see today a problem? Because when people are walking around, they're anxious, they're inflamed, they're tired, they're over-caffeinated, and when people look at you and folks like Bryan Johnson, we're thinking these people are extremes.
People are weird. These people are overdoing it. But really, is the new normal a problem?
Dave Asprey: Normal is always a problem because 50% of people are dumber than [00:01:00] average.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So normal literally means average. So if normal is not a problem for you, then you probably shouldn't be an entrepreneur.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Right? Did I say that backwards?
You know what I'm trying to say. Basically, we'll state that again. If you're happy with normal, you're probably not an entrepreneur.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Uh, because we wanna be better than normal. Yeah. And that's okay. And not better than everyone else, just better than average, right? And some people are like that, some aren't.
In fact, half of people want to be better than normal, 'cause they are, and they typically are gonna say, "How much better than normal can I be?"
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: And the cool thing is one person may say, "Well, I'm, you know, a CrossFitter," right? Another, "I'm a finance entrepreneur." Another one says, "I don't care about that.
I wanna be a personal trainer." It doesn't really matter. It's like you pick your passion, say, "How can I be the best in the world at that?" And you might not be the best in the world. We all know that. There aren't that many people who can be the best in the world at something. But be as close as you can.
Yeah. And as long as it's the best you can be at that, and anything [00:02:00] else that interests you, you'll probably enjoy your life a lot more and probably make more money, too.
Hala Taha: Yeah. When you look at normal life of Americans, I was just... You know, I gave you a plastic bottle just now. Mm-hmm. And you went, "Ugh, plastic."
Dave Asprey: Yeah, I had to touch it with a rubber glove.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: I borrowed it from Bryan Johnson.
Hala Taha: And you, you poured the water- ... and I, and I asked you, you know, "I can't believe you're actually gonna still drink, drink that." I, I forgot that, you know, you would probably not wanna drink water from a plastic bottle. So what are some of the normal things that we do that to you just seem, like, really unhealthy and you think people should stop doing?
Dave Asprey: Well, the first thing I'm gonna do is I'm gonna take a drink of this plastic water out of a plastic cup. 'Cause I've been working on my man boobs lately. No, it's because perfectionism can be toxic, and I see this in, in eating. It's called bulimia or orthorexia. And we see it in biohacking. We see it in, in the gym, in [00:03:00] exercise, in all kinds of, of cultural contexts, and it's just, "Oh, no, what I'm doing isn't perfect."
It's just perfectionism under another label. If you have that about your health, you're probably going to die, because you're gonna die of stress. So you should stress about your stress. Like, it is a, a terrible suck. It's such a terrible suck that the Buddhists have a name for that kind of hell. They have, like, hundreds of different types of hells, but perfectionism- Mm-hmm
is one of them. So I know very well that I should have my water, that ideally would be out of a glass bottle drawn from a spring and lab-tested, and we might as well add some hydrogen or oxygen and treat it with lasers and bless it with monks. Uh, 'cause I'm sure some of that makes a difference, and I could stack rank which of those probably makes a difference depending on the monk.
But for God's sake, I just needed some water, right? So I don't worry about being perfect. I say, "How perfect or how close to perfect can this thing be given the [00:04:00] constraints of the system?"
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: It helps that I'm a former computer hacker. I studied computer science and worked in Silicon Valley as a tech entrepreneur for a long time.
So how good can you make it?
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Elon has a similar mindset. He has something, um... It's, it's a ratio. I think he calls it, like, the idiot ratio or something.
Hala Taha: Okay.
Dave Asprey: And it's basically, okay, what is the cost of the raw material in this mug? And he'll say, "Okay, there's metal and plastic." Okay. That's worth two and a half cents if you were to buy the raw materials.
And so why are you paying $5 for a mug that costs two and a half cents in materials? Mm. So that ratio is basically how dumb are you 'cause you can't make it yourself.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So I kind of see the world through a similar lens, where is it worth it to do it myself?
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Right? And how excellently can I do that? So on the water, I could carry around a water filter.
It just doesn't return, and it doesn't return energy to me.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: And what I've found about entrepreneurship, and I, I think I've earned the right to say this. I've [00:05:00] done more than a billion dollars in revenue from companies that I've founded. Mm. I built Bulletproof to $140 million in revenues, um, before the board fired me and then sold it to themselves for peanuts.
Thanks, guys. Um, there was a lawsuit. Uh, Danger Coffee is my new coffee brand. Uh, I've also been a tech entrepreneur, very successful. And after all of that, I have eight companies in my portfolio right now that I'm operationally involved with, and I'm able to do this because I monitor and manage my energy the way they do in data centers-
Hala Taha: Hmm
Dave Asprey: which was my first big win back in the late '90s in the dot-com boom. It was a data center company. So- How do we do that? We say, "Okay, every electron matters." Well, it turns out our bodies are wired the same way. So your cells have distributed power generation called mitochondria. Mm-hmm. They do other things too.
And then if they make a lot of power, okay, where is it gonna go? Well, again, is it gonna go to [00:06:00] folding proteins, making neurotransmitters, thinking about your mother-in-law?
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Like worrying about your business, feeling like you're gonna die because someone's criticizing you. All the things that every entrepreneur struggles with, especially when they're young, um, it- there's only a finite number of electrons.
Now, with biohacking, the origins of this came out of the longevity movement, uh, way, way back in Silicon Valley, the first longevity nonprofit. I ran this in my 20s. I became president and chairman of it, and I started learning about how biology works and said- Mm ... "Oh my God, it's the same thing. It's just energy."
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: So what I'm doing every day is I'm saying, "How can I not waste a single electron?" Mm. So that I have enough left for my body to do the things it needs to do to stay healthy, and for me to allocate my energy so I don't dr- I don't waste a single drop. So if I spend all my energy worrying about what's in my freaking water, then I wouldn't spend that energy- Mm
being present or killing cancer cells or any of the other things that my system wants to do. So the [00:07:00] game of life for everything alive, not just humans, but especially entrepreneurs, is how do I allocate my energy most effectively? Mm.
Hala Taha: I have so many questions about allocating energy effectively. Cool. But first, I want to talk about your origin story.
So you mentioned that you started in Silicon Valley. Yeah. And you actually were pretty unhealthy in your 20s. You could
Dave Asprey: say.
Hala Taha: And late 20s. Or, or- Sure ... you know, you were maybe average.
Dave Asprey: No, I was, I was, uh, I would say below average
Hala Taha: from a health perspective. You were below average. So- So talk to us about- Okay
what it was like working in Silicon Valley. Like what did your body feel like? What did your brain feel like every day when you were- Mm ... unhealthy?
Dave Asprey: It actually started even during college.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So I was studying computer science, and I'd hit 300 pounds. I weigh about 198 today. And- I was also trying to pay for my college, which had gotten very expensive.
So I started selling a T-shirt with a caffeine molecule on it that looks like that. [00:08:00]
Hala Taha: Cool.
Dave Asprey: I don't know if the camera can see that. That's my caffeine molecule. Anyway, um, that became the first product ever sold over the internet before e-commerce had, uh, had the name e-commerce. Mm-hmm. People were faxing me checks to cash.
It was the weirdest thing. And then I was in Entrepreneur Magazine at 23, in a full-color picture and all that. Nice. Years later, when I was telling the story of biohacking on The Joe Rogan show, people were like, "You weren't really fat." I'm like, "Here's my proof of fat photo from Entrepreneur Magazine, motherfucker."
So, um, but when I got to Silicon Valley, I'd had arthritis since I was 14 in my knees. Um, I started dislocating. My knees would just pop out, and I would just fall over walking through college. It was very painful. Damn. Uh, I'd been on antibiotics for 15 years every month, give or take, because I had chronic strep throat and sinus infections.
Hmm. I didn't know, 'cause I lived in toxic mold, and I have the genetics that makes it really poisonous. I had brain damage from toxic mold-
Hala Taha: Wow ...
Dave Asprey: to the point that when I was [00:09:00] going to Wharton's business school when I was about 30, um, I was failing. Like, I was literally failing out of the classes and thinking to myself, "Maybe I'm not trying hard enough.
Maybe I'm dumber than all my classmates. Maybe I'm... Oh my God, maybe I'm normal."
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And well- I went to one of Dr. Daniel Amen's, uh, clinics, and they did a brain scan, and I saw the psychiatrist who looked at me. It wasn't, uh, Dr. Amen. Um, he looks at me like, "Oh, tech bro wants Adderall." Like, I- I... You can see this- Hmm
look of like, "Ugh, whatever." But he ordered the brain scan that I wanted, and then when he got the results, I walked back into his office, it was in Palo Alto, and he just looks at me, he goes, "Inside your brain is total chaos. I don't know how you're standing here in front of me. You have the best camouflage I've ever seen."
Hala Taha: Wow.
Dave Asprey: And I was like, "Thank God someone finally believes me." Like, I have the accelerator all the way to the floor all the time, and the car is slowing down, and I [00:10:00] can't will it to go faster, and I have nothing left.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And that was when I realized, okay, I have actually brain damage. It was probably from mold toxins.
But I was like, "Thank God, this is so relaxing. I have a hardware problem. I can fix a hardware problem." Hmm. If it's a I'm a bad person or I'm just dumb problem... So I went all in on nootropics before they were called nootropics. I ordered $1,200 of them from Europe and started really self-medicating my brain, 'cause entrepreneurs, we make money with our brains.
Mm-hmm. And I was feeling dumb at the time. Like, I'm desperate. So I did everything. I ended up spending two and a half million dollars. Wow. Some of that to recover and a lot of it to reverse my age, enhance my intelligence. I built a neuroscience company that makes people smarter and replaces decades of meditation in a few days, and I have written nine books and four New York Times bestsellers about cognitive enhancement and longevity and fertility, and my most recent [00:11:00] book I called Heavily Meditated is about altered states, and it became the bestselling philosophy book in the country.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Uh, which was crazy. It's not a philosophy book, but it explains how our bodies make decisions, and I c- probably should've written it as a business book because it's so important. Mm-hmm. I've had about 1,400 entrepreneur types come through my neuroscience company. So I'm writing this after 10 years of looking inside the brains of entrepreneurs.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: We all make decisions with our bodies before we can think about it- Mm-hmm ... and it's invisible to us, but I know the code for that. And once you understand what your body's doing versus what you're doing, a lot of the things that are hard for entrepreneurs, especially under 35-
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm ...
Dave Asprey: like up to about 35, you're like, "I'm still finding my tribe.
I'm still making my mark in the world." Yeah. And you're trying to prove something. And so you have different body decision-makings, the emotions, but they come from your tissues, not from your brain.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: And then after some time, 35, 40, most people are like, "Oh, maybe I should have a mission." And sometimes [00:12:00] you think you have a mission when you're young- Mm-hmm
but it's usually performative.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm. So interesting. Um, I wanna, I wanna stick on how you ended up discovering-
Dave Asprey: Mm-hmm ...
Hala Taha: that you could actually fix yourself, right? So, um, you talked about two, $2.5 million of testing- Mm-hmm ... on yourself, which ended up being like the best seed investment ever, right? Oh, yeah. You, you built this...
You, you're the father of biohacking. You built, like, billion-dollar products. Like, you've absolutely crushed it.
Mm-hmm.
Um, but what was one of the first experiments where you were like, "Oh my God. I can actually... Like, this is true. I can, I can actually change my, my hardware"?
Dave Asprey: Oh, man. So many things pop into my head.
Well- One of the ones that, that just comes to mind, I, I was just becoming aware of this, and I had exhausted all the stuff that, that you can do with Western medicine. Uh, like, I have constant pain in my body. My knees always hurt. My brain, I, I have this massive brain fog. I had fibromyalgia [00:13:00] and chronic fatigue, or today it's like the same thing as long COVID.
Um, I just didn't understand why some days I was kind of lucid, some days I was a zombie, and when I was a zombie, I had to pretend like I wasn't a zombie, but I was pretty good at pretending, but I'm like, "I can't remember anything from my meetings today." Mm-hmm. "Oh, what am I gonna do?" So I decided I was gonna do all the stuff that I thought was stupid, so I did acupuncture.
I come from a family of scientists, and I was raised to be very skeptical. And, like, meditation, that's for dumb people. Right? Or even worse, like, going to any spiritual thing of all. Um, so I ended up saying, "I'm gonna go to Nepal and Tibet." Mm. "I'm gonna learn meditation from the masters." Like, I give up. Like, like, maybe I'm wrong about some of my fundamental assumptions.
And so I spent three months doing that, and I was in a monastery and, and someone said, "Oh, you know, let's [00:14:00] go to the most holy mountain in the world," which is five days on a four-wheel drive- Mm ... across Tibet called Mount Kailash. Anyone who's Buddhist or Hindu knows this. It's, it's very famous.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And it's also very remote.
So I ended up going there, and that was where I'm just feeling like death, like my whole body hurts. It's 18,000 feet elevation, and this little Tibetan woman gives me a bowl of yak butter tea.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And I drank it, and about five minutes later, it was like sparkles went off in my brain. I'm like, "Wow, I haven't felt this good in-"
so long. What was in that?" And it's just green tea. Mm. It's pu-erh tea, but... And some yak butter. And I didn't understand why, but the lady, she would walk, like, a quarter mile, crack ice on the river, get water, boil the water over yak dung as the fire, 'cause there's no wood, just you burn poop, right? And then they'd heat up the tea and make the tea.
I'm like, "Okay, drink it." No, no, no. She'd pour it into a butter churn with [00:15:00] the yak butter and then churn it for, like, 10 minutes. Mm. She wouldn't just churn it a little bit. I'm like, "What is wrong with this person?" Like, "I just want to drink my tea." Right? But what made it work was the fact that she churned it for that amount of time.
Mm. And I couldn't understand any of this, but that was where the idea for Bulletproof Coffee came from.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: So it was why do I feel radically different after I do this little dumb thing in a cup, right? Well, it was the curiosity about what made it go-
Hala Taha: Mm ...
Dave Asprey: that generated, uh, 500 plus million dollars of sales, right?
It's, it's remarkable.
Hala Taha: Yeah, so cool.
Dave Asprey: Um, other things, when I bought my first batch of nootropics a little before that, when I was just trying to make my brain go so I wouldn't get fired, I- I remember getting them and I took something called piracetam, which is relatively well known today, although I recommend aniracetam even more.
And, um, it was very hard to get. So I tried it, and I took it for a week and thought, "This is dumb." I wasted all this money and it didn't even do anything, so I quit taking it. [00:16:00] And the next day I said, "Wait, I'm looking for a word. I can't remember a word." So you don't notice when your performance smooths out and gets better-
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: because it just feels natural. But you'll notice a decline in performance more than you'll notice an improvement. Mm. So the improvement was invisible, but the lack of it, like, "Oh, I'm searching for words that I can't find again." So I've been on aniracetam now for 25 years, which is a cognitive enhancer that increases memory IO.
I've also been on the Limitless drug-
Hala Taha: Mm ...
Dave Asprey: also known as modafinil, which I popularized with entrepreneurs years ago. One of my first posts was why you are suffering from a modafinil deficiency- ... which just pissed everybody off- ... which is one of my love languages. So I wrote this and said, "Here's what happened when a little birdie gave modafinil to four ordinary people," and it told their stories.
A guy was writing a proposal for the Dalai Lama Foundation. He's like, "I took one pill. I rewrote the entire proposal that I've worked on [00:17:00] for six weeks in one night, and I, I submitted it, and they accepted it." And just everyone had these incredible experiences. Mm. And it really is the Limitless drug. And so there's probably 50,000 entrepreneurs who are on modafinil.
A lot of politicians are on it now. Mm. And this is a drug that was designed for narcolepsy, when people fall asleep uncontrollably. But it also happens to be the most studied drug for raising IQ with very few side effects.
Hala Taha: Wow.
Dave Asprey: So I'm actually on it right now. It's
Hala Taha: cheating. How--
Dave Asprey: do
Hala Taha: you get prescribed for it?
Dave Asprey: Well, there's two ways to do it. One is you go to ChatGPT and say, "What are the things I would have to tell my doctor to get him to write me a script for it?" And then you tell your doctor that. The easiest one is to say you have shift sleep worker disorder because you have to work different shifts.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Um, the other thing you could do is you could just order it online- Mm
from another country. So I have a prescription.
Hala Taha: Yeah. Similar to how people, I guess, get peptides [00:18:00] now.
Dave Asprey: Very similar. Yeah.
Hala Taha: Okay.
Dave Asprey: It, it's funny though, because if you look at what makes someone an entrepreneur, um, there's a, a code or a name for it that's in the, the doctor's books. It's called ADHD.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Right?
So weird. Modafinil is a off-label use of it anyway. Let me say that again. It's weird because an off-label use of modafinil is for ADHD.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So when I first went through all of this stuff when my brain wasn't working in business school Uh, and I went on the stuff. They, they tried giving me Adderall and I hated how I felt on it.
Like I can focus but I wanna curl up under my bed. And Modafinil just made everyone around me slower.
Hala Taha: I love that. I wanna try it.
Dave Asprey: It is one of the most profound substances. It doesn't work for 20% of people, they feel nothing.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And five in a million people can have an, a [00:19:00] reaction to it, the same reaction that, uh, ibuprofen causes.
Oh,
Hala Taha: okay.
Dave Asprey: So very rare, but it's an autoimmune skin condition that's life-threatening so you can do your genes if you're worried about it, but the odds are very, very low.
Hala Taha: Yeah. Let's talk about energy leaks.
Dave Asprey: Hmm.
Hala Taha: You can have energy leaking from your brain. We just talked about some of those energy leaks. We can have energy leaking from our body.
Mm-hmm. You've got this framework of five Fs- Oh, yeah ... in which our body basically has to allocate where our energy goes, our mitochondria.
Dave Asprey: Mm-hmm.
Hala Taha: Talk to us about the five Fs and what the mitochondria- Yeah ... have to do with that.
Dave Asprey: So y- I'm gonna take you through a set of steps-
Hala Taha: Okay ...
Dave Asprey: that have to be true for this to make sense.
Okay. Because it's okay to be... I'm a little skeptical about this, 'cause I was skeptical too, and I have exhausted this from philosophical, spiritual, biochemical, and just a systems biology perspective, and this is how life works. Mm. And I, I don't [00:20:00] say that lightly. Listen up, Yeah Fam. Okay. You're not gonna see this, but it's gonna make sense.
So let's pretend that you're a single-cell microbe or something without a lot of intelligence like a, a tree or a skunk or a politician or whatever, and... You didn't even laugh. A politician. I didn't get
Hala Taha: it was a
Dave Asprey: joke. Okay. No, that's funny. So, uh, anyway, something not very intelligent, and you've gotta be able to live.
What are... If you strip away all the things, what are the things that you must do in order to be alive?
Hala Taha: Eat.
Dave Asprey: Well, that's almost there. Not get eaten is the first one. Mm-hmm. So it's fear. That's why these are F words. So don't let something eat me, and if you're a, a microbe, you secrete some toxins. You have little, little cilia to move away.
If you're a tree, you grow thick bark or spines. Mm. Uh, if you're a politician, you tell more lies. Like, all the things, right? Okay, so that's fear. Run away from killer hide. The second one, you called it, it's food. It's eat everything,
Hala Taha: right?
Dave Asprey: This is why life will tend to do [00:21:00] that. You put a bunch of rats in a box, they're happy for three generations, then they eat everything, including each other.
It's gross. Yeah. So fear, food. Third F word, all things have to do it to stay alive for multiple generations.
Hala Taha: Uh, f- fertility?
Dave Asprey: You read my book. You cheated. I was trying to trick you into dropping an F-bomb on your own show. Uh, so yeah, fertility. So I'm gonna ask you this, and you're listening to this, so ask yourself, is there anything you've ever done you're ashamed of that isn't one of those three things?
Hala Taha: Fear, food, or fertility?
Dave Asprey: Mm-hmm.
Hala Taha: No, not really.
Dave Asprey: Yeah. All the seven deadly sins, all the egoic behaviors are driven by mitochondria trying to keep your body alive.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And they can do that because they're much faster than you can think, and here's the proof of this. If I clap my hands You're sitting in your car somewhere probably, or the gym, and you're saying, "Okay, I knew it took some amount of time for the sound to reach my ears, and then I heard it," 'cause that's [00:22:00] what you perceived.
But if I had electrodes glued to your head, we can measure one third of a second after the sound hits your ear, your mitochondria and your nervous system allows it into the brain. Mm. Because your body is deciding what it's gonna make you do and feel before you get a chance to think.
Hala Taha: Wow.
Dave Asprey: And if you don't believe me, you ever lean on a hot stove and go, "You know, that's really hot.
I guess I should move my hand"?
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: No. You jerk your hand away, right? And go, "Good thing I moved my hand." You didn't move your hand. Someone else with their fingers on the control system who's hiding from you moved your hand and just made you take credit for it, right? 'Cause you didn't make the conscious decision.
It was built in.
Hala Taha: Mm, like a... Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Yeah. So the thing to know if you're an entrepreneur is that there is another intelligence inside your body running the things you're not paying attention to, and it doesn't have the goals you do. Its goals are fear, food, and fucking.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: That's really dark. Can I say an F word on your show?
Hala Taha: Yeah, you can. [00:23:00]
Dave Asprey: All right, good.
Hala Taha: We're already explicit, unfortunately. Cool.
Dave Asprey: Good deal.
Hala Taha: Everybody is at this point.
Dave Asprey: Yeah, at this, at this point, you say anything true, you're swearing. So fear, food, fucking. But the good news is there's two more F words that mitochondria care about, and that's why we have hope for humans.
The next one is friend.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And all life will support its own ecosystem, the life around it, and its own species. This is why trees become an ecosystem. This is why we help other people's children if they're lost, why we help our elderly across the street. This is why we're kind to each other even if we don't know, because our mitochondria made us feel kindness.
Mm. They are the puppet masters because they get to tell you what you're allowed to see, how you're gonna feel about it, and then you take action on it. They are puppet mastering you all the time. But there is a hack for that. And the final F word that's the most important in the way you get control of the system is forgiveness.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Now, that's usually a trigger word for a lot [00:24:00] of people. It's like, "I'm not gonna forgive that person. They were mean to me. My anger keeps me safe." Dude, your anger is the biggest energy leak ever. Mm. So you don't do that. Forgiveness is not saying that you forgive someone. Uh, forgiveness is making it so that you have zero reactivity to them- Mm
whether you ever speak to them again. And the idea is just letting it go, but being aware. And that is why I can still sit here today after literally losing $100 million because I didn't get the, the lesson on discernment until, like that was the cost of that lesson, which is what I would have walked away from Bulletproof with- Mm
had people done what I thought was lo- was logical. You make 100 million, I make 100 million.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: I didn't understand that there are humans out there where for them to win- I have to lose.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And it doesn't matter how much money or any other thing is involved. If I make any, they think that they lost.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So when you understand you're playing a game with win-lose humans, the game is very different than if you're playing with win-win.
I thought [00:25:00] everyone was a win-win. So I'm like, "You make 100 million, I make 100 million." Yeah. "Maybe you make 90 and I make 80. Who the heck cares? Like, it's a lot of money." But no. So my, my mistake, and a really big lesson that makes me a great advisor for entrepreneurs is, yeah, understanding the human condition.
That's all in my, my latest book, the different types of people there are.
Hala Taha: Let's, let's, let's double tap on that. Okay. What are the different types of people out there? What do we need to watch out for? Okay.
Dave Asprey: This is something that comes up with entrepreneurs when they're at 40 Years of Zen. This is my neuroscience place here in Austin.
It's a, a five-day retreat with electrodes glued to your head. The guy, the head neuroscientist from the telepathy tapes is my neuroscientist. So we're teaching people to have advanced powers, we'll put it that way. And when people, when people attend that, I teach them these categories of humans. So type one people are win-win.
It's about 5% of people. So they're always win-win. You interact with them, like if they do something that made you lose, you can't even [00:26:00] conceive of it. They just don't do that. The most common type of, of person after that is type two. These are people who are win-win usually, but they screw up. They don't see things 'cause their ego takes action.
Mm. Their mitochondria made them feel this way 'cause their mom yelled at them or whatever. And then if you tell them, "Hey buddy, that wasn't okay," they apologize and go, "Oh my gosh, how do I make that right?" And then, you know, they pay you back or they do whatever.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Normal humans on the path of being better humans.
Hala Taha: So they, they'll make good.
Dave Asprey: They'll make good, and they'll hear the criticism. Type three are win-lose, but they don't know it, and these are so dangerous for entrepreneurs. Mm. And the, the word for this is narcissist, and these are people who believe whatever their internal dialogue is regardless of the facts.
So you can have someone who you have a video of them in a room killing someone with a knife. They're covered in blood, holding the knife, and the room is locked. And you open the room, and they go, [00:27:00] "Oh, it wasn't me. It couldn't have been me. I'm a good person." And you show them the video, they go, "No, I'm a good person.
Couldn't have been me." And they believe it. So you can't tell that they're lying 'cause they're not lying. Mm-hmm. They just believe bullshit. So most entrepreneurs listening to this, you have someone in your company like that. You know who they are right now when I said that.
Hala Taha: Or somebody who formerly was in your company potentially.
Dave Asprey: Hopefully someone. Well, if you still have a company- ... they were probably formerly in your company. So one of the experiences, uh, that I, I just cherish is, uh, probably eight, nine years ago, I was at a, a business conference and, um, a guy named Ken, who was running a $500 million company, very experienced entrepreneur.
Um, I was telling him what was going on at Bulletproof, and he looks at me, and he recognized this pattern, didn't call it the same thing, and he said, "So we're gonna fire her with my phone or your phone?" And like hands me his phone. And I'm like, "What are you talking about? Like, I need this person. Uh, you know, [00:28:00] I understand the problem you're talking about.
Like, I'll, I'll work on it." He goes, "You don't understand. Like, these are the people who break companies." I said, "How do you know?" He said, "Well, you know, I run a $500 million company, and I was mentored by Jack Welch-" Mm. Yeah ... you know, the CEO of GE. Like, I'm like, "Holy crap. This guy's-" "... a badass and a good human."
And I didn't take his advice. And about a year later, that same executive, who the entire year had told me and the board, "I'm going to-- We're gonna be losing $4 million this year, but we have $30 million in venture capital. We're gonna grow 40%. Every week, we're on track, we're on track, we're on track." And then December 1st, she goes, "Uh, we might lose 5 million instead of 4."
I said, "Okay, as long as our growth rates are there." And December 31st, she goes, "Oopsie, I lost $28 million." And I, I'm like, "What? The, the entire year you said something different, and you just burned three years of venture capital in one year without telling me or the board. Like, what the..." Okay? Mm-hmm. And if you're an [00:29:00] entrepreneur running a big company, yes, I probably should've looked at the bank accounts.
Uh, it's hard being the influencer and the CEO. It's really hard. It is. But I, I had trusted the wrong people. So, uh, and this was a person with fantastic credentials, top of her class at Harvard kind of thing. So- When I, when I fired her, she looked me in the eye and she said, "You should give me more stock options."
And I'm like, I'm like, "Why?" And, and she just made up a story in her head that made no sense. And I said, "Well, I would have to take stock options from the other employees who actually are doing work and didn't burn through all of our venture funding." And she started crying and ghosted me, and we have never spoken since.
Hala Taha: Wow.
Dave Asprey: Because I penetrated her reality bubble, and the reality is I don't fail.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So if you ever have someone come in the door during a job interview who says they don't fail, run. Run screaming. It is really [00:30:00] important. Hire people who at least acknowledge failure.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: And- When you look at the fourth category of person, category four people, these are win-lose and they know it.
They get off on manipulating you. They're very hard to spot because they're master manipulators. Mm. They're sociopaths and psychopaths. And it turns out there's 5% of those and 5% of win-win, the category ones. It's an, it's a bell curve.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: So your job as an entrepreneur is to ruthlessly eliminate type three people from your organization.
These are the people who lie. These are the people who undermine you when you're not looking.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: They're the ones who organize coups. And if you allow a category three to stick around for more than about 90 days, what will happen is they will infiltrate some people in your organization, share their mindset, tell little white lies, but they're not white, to separate your team from you-
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm
Dave Asprey: and create chaos in the org. And when you fire them, you'll lose two [00:31:00] people who were good people as well. So they're like a cancer in the org, and if you let them go long enough the way I did, you might even lose your company.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Um, they're, they're relatively hard to spot, but you spot them in the job interview.
In my set of, I have seven or eight companies right now, uh, we have a goal. 60 days if we hire one.
Hala Taha: Yep.
Dave Asprey: We'll, we'll... You know in 60 days. We just fire them right then, and I tell people that during the interview, and we do exhaustive profiling on people, uh, before, uh, before we hire them to make sure
Hala Taha: of that.
What, what are some of the questions that you ask to, to kinda just get a sense of what type of person they are?
Dave Asprey: Um, at this point I use two different frameworks. One is the Kolbe, and Kolbe tells you basically are they a natural fit for this job in, like, their instinctive way of thinking about the world and solving problems.
And the other one is from a woman named Busy Gold, and she does psychology-level questions that I couldn't ask in a job interview. It would be illegal.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: But [00:32:00] they go to a psychiatrist or psychologist who then assesses that, um, takes out anything personal and just says, "Here's the person's, um, r- personality reaction profile."
Uh, w- it's very dry numbers, but it tells with relative certainty, um, whether someone is likely to go dark.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And so my, my biggest mistake, um, building a, I don't know, $100 million company from scratch was I didn't fire the people who were category three fast enough.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: If I'd have just known that lesson, I would probably be a multibillionaire right now.
Hala Taha: So interesting. And so when you were talking about that example of the executive, she basically got triggered from an old wound. Uh, when she couldn't accept that, that she failed, whatever that wound was. And- Oh, it,
Dave Asprey: it was a, it was a daddy wound.
Hala Taha: A daddy wound? It, it
Dave Asprey: always is. Can I... I just have to say this.
Like-
Hala Taha: Yeah ...
Dave Asprey: if you're a female entrepreneur-
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm ...
Dave Asprey: everyone in your company with mommy issues will see you as Mommy, 'cause you're the woman authority figure. And if you're a male [00:33:00] entrepreneur, everyone with daddy issues will see you as their daddy because that's how human brains work. That's how mitochondrial networks work, and that's what happens when emotions are generated before thoughts.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: So, you're sitting in a room and you say something to someone, and maybe he feels like you're criticizing him the way his dad did or the way his teacher did or whatever. He's gonna get the emotions he had at that time, unless he's done his forgiveness work and he's done a lot of personal development work.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Right? And then he's gonna see you as a bad person because that's what happened when he was five years old or whatever the hell. Yeah. So, you could spend your time managing emotions of other people, which is the most horrifying part of being an entrepreneur, um, or you could do better job of hiring people who've done enough work that it's okay.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: All of my senior executives, when they start in my companies, they go to 40 Years of Zen the first week because that's where you go to turn off all of your triggers. Like, like literally that's what we're doing with computers. It's like the system notifications on your phone. I can't use my phone because Twitter and TikTok and everything [00:34:00] is just popping up alerts everywhere.
Your nervous system's doing that right now.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: So, what if you just turned off all the useless alerts? That's what I've done. That's why I can run a big handful of companies, and that's why, like, no one died when a group of business people stole my company- ... at the same time I was getting divorced and had a family member try to steal one of my other companies.
Hala Taha: Oh my God.
Dave Asprey: Um, and I wrote about all that in Heavily Meditated, but I can sit here and like, "Thank you for the lessons. Like I- Mm-hmm ... I learned what I needed to learn, so you probably shouldn't try to steal one of my companies now because I will see it."
Hala Taha: Can you give us an example of a trigger that showed up in your leadership- Hmm
that then you reset? Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Yeah. This is so funny. One of the things that your mitochondria can do is they can decide which things in the environment you're allowed to hear or see.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: So, one of my favorite board members when I was at Bulletproof, uh, his name was Dan, uh, Dan Scolnik. He's at, uh, Green, Green River Ventures now.
And he [00:35:00] was just a, the kind of board member that every entrepreneur w- wishes they would have, who, who just really understood both sides of, of the seat, uh, even though he worked for, uh, one of the good investors. Um- Dan sat down one time and he said, "Dave, you have 200 SKUs." And, and a SKU is basically a, a separate product that you're selling.
And he's like, "It's breaking your team. You're gonna, you're gonna sink your company with this." I'm like, "Wow, 200's a lot. Like, why didn't you say something?" And he looked at me like I'm the- ... I'm like, I'm an idiot. And, and he goes, "Dave, I've been yelling this at you for the last six months." And I was kinda humbled.
I'm like, "I swear to God, this is the first time I've ever heard that." And it was the first time I heard that, because my ego didn't wanna hear it, 'cause I think creating cool stuff that people wanna use and that helps people's health, I think it's really kind of an obligation for an entrepreneur. Mm-hmm.
Like, let's make the world a better place. Yeah. We can make money doing it, too. And the fact that I was that blind [00:36:00] that I couldn't hear, I couldn't see this, even though people I trusted were telling me, everyone has that capability in them to just not see it.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.
It means that you have a human body, 'cause human bodies will do that because they're running the F words, right? In this case, it was probably fear of not doing my mission. Mm. Um, I don't know. It-
Hala Taha: People pleasing maybe a little bit.
Dave Asprey: Yeah. It definitely had some people pleasing in there, and I don't... I think I'm done with that.
I, I, I like- ... people triggering these days. It's more fun.
Hala Taha: So, uh, y- you had this trigger. How did you determine, you know, what wound was actually triggering you- Mm ... and how did you reset it or make sure that it doesn't happen as often?
Dave Asprey: Okay, that is an amazing question. No one's ever actually asked it that way.
So, in Heavily Meditated... And guys, you can buy the book or not. It doesn't change my life in the slightest. Like it's, it's my wisdom. Um, but I, I think I make a dollar per book, and it was already pre-paid in advance, so truly I'm not selling you the [00:37:00] book. It's there for you. But The reset process that I use is based on neuroscience, and it's based on a study of forgiveness practices around the world, and then seeing what works in high-performance people.
So you-- we glue electrodes to your head. This is what I did. And you sit down, and you imagine the other person. There's eight steps. I won't go through all of them. Um, but it turns out that the feeling of turning off one of these alerts, one of these triggers, is very similar to what Buddhists would call a loving kindness thing.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And it's a, uh... What you basically do is you re-experience the pain in your body. How did it feel when you were triggered? And then the, the altered opposite state is like this heart-opening, warm, golden feeling where you're sending something to the other person. And there are similar practices in Buddhism, but they're not exactly the same.
And [00:38:00] I haven't seen other, other spiritual practices that have anything close to this, but it's not a Buddhist practice. It's, it's a different thing.
Hala Taha: Okay.
Dave Asprey: Desmond Tutu talks about, like, the feeling of, of this forgiveness, like a divine thing, but it's an embodied felt sense because when you were triggered, it wasn't your mind.
It was a feeling. Like, you know what it... It's in your heart. It's in your gut. Hmm. Like when you're- It's in your groin. Yeah. Like the hairs on the back of your neck and, like, like you're ready- Mm-hmm ... to fight. Yeah. Okay, so first you... How did that feel? And then you learn this other state. Problem is, it takes 20 to 40 years to learn the other state if you meditate for an hour a day.
I can do it in five days for people reliably after more than 10 years of doing this. So now, like, oh, anytime my body does this eh, you have a tool to play Whac-A-Mole. And so you say, "All right. Turn that one off. Turn that one off." It's like going through and just anytime an alert popped up on your phone, you can click a little button and say, "I don't want that one anymore."
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And then you do this process. But sometimes you don't know, like, the, the [00:39:00] root of it, what the real- Yeah ... cause is. So can I tell you a little story?
Hala Taha: Of course.
Dave Asprey: All right. Around 2014, this is first three years of starting Bulletproof. Uh, I was doing maybe 800 grand a month. Uh, not bad for a three-year-old company- That's really good.
started and self-funded with $50,000 of, of, uh, teaching hedge fund managers how to make their brains work better. So, um, this guy calls me up and says, "Hey, I'm your biggest fan. I'm a Hollywood stuntman, uh, and you should be on this guy Joe Rogan's show." Now, I have a confession. I have listened to five podcast episodes in my entire life.
Now, I've made 1,400 of my own episodes. And I've probably been on several thousand interviews like this one, right? So I create content, but I don't have time to listen to it- Yeah ... because I run companies and make content.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: So I didn't know who Joe Rogan was. It was only maybe episode 400, 450 or something.
So I show up in LA, [00:40:00] and Joe's, like, high as a kite. He's, like, exhaling before- ... before the first question. And I'm like, "Man, I can't smoke that. I will be an idiot on your show if I do, but I think it should be legal." And it became legal right after that.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So I taught Joe about grass-fed meat, um, butter, coffee, uh, getting ADHD going, and he still talks about that stuff today.
Mm-hmm. And this is cool. Well, the stuntman then, uh, said, "Hey, Dave, uh, you know, let's do a coffee truck together." I'm like, "All right, we'll do a Bulletproof coffee truck." And then he basically was playing me. I was trusting the wrong people.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: Um, and calls me up one day when I'm still expecting our coffee truck's about done, and he goes, "I've decided I'm launching my own brand, and I'm gonna say it's mold-free, but I'm not gonna lab test it."
So to me, mold-free coffee is really important because we have a problem in the US where the world sends its moldy coffee here, and then we drink it, and we get angry and want sugar. So that's why Danger Coffee, because who knows what you might do. There, I gave my plug. But if you're an entrepreneur, you should drink Danger because it actually works.
But [00:41:00] anyway, so this guy... Well, it was a betrayal thing. I'm like, "Okay, I can handle that. Whatever. Some guy." But then after being on Rogan two more times and just having been nothing but giving-
Hala Taha: Yeah ...
Dave Asprey: and, and helping, um, Joe goes on and says, "Dave Asprey's a liar. He's a bad guy." Now, he hired a fact checker. Oh, by the way, he said that on the day that a company that he owned a portion of launched their competitor to Bulletproof.
So this was commercially motivated behavior. Mm. And just today, I did my whole reset process. I've forgiven Joe Rogan. I've been to his comedy shows, and he was a hero during the pandemic. I don't have any issues with him. We both live in Austin. Haven't been to a party with him, but if he did, I'd give him a hug.
I don't... He'd probably run away. He'd probably kick my ass, but he's a lot shorter, so I'm kind of intimidating. But I don't care. Like, I just don't care. So Joe, if you hear this, I love you, brother. It's fine. But at the time, oh my God. Mm. I freaked out. I hired a, a, a crisis PR firm. Like, "What do I do? This podcast, they're saying mean things about me."
Really? [00:42:00] Really? A podcaster saying mean things about me? But in my mind, it was a catastrophe. I'm like-
Hala Taha: Well, it's your credibility.
Dave Asprey: It was my credibility, but I already had a show. I already had a brand- Mm-hmm ... doing, like, 800 grand a month. Like- Mm ... who the fuck cares? He's a podcaster, right?
Hala Taha: Yeah. You probably sold more coffee from it-
Dave Asprey: Well, that-
Hala Taha: ultimately ...
Dave Asprey: ultimately, you nailed it. I couldn't see the fact that every time Joe Rogan says Dave Asprey is a bad man, I sell more coffee. I couldn't see it for that same thing we're talking about. So I finally, after, like, six months of this, a guy who was a convoy commander in the Iraq war was like... who worked for me.
He's like, "Uh, Dave, he's just a podcaster. Why are you so freaked out?" Like, the whole team is feeling it. I'm like, "Gosh." Mm. So I put the electrodes on my head. I- ... took my own medicine, did my 40 years of Zen thing, and, and the first thing that popped into my mind wasn't Joe Rogan. It was an experience in first grade that I'd forgotten, and it was a time when I tattled on another kid, which isn't cool, but hey, in first grade, you learn.
And the teacher goes, "Little Johnny, did you do it?" And he goes, "Oh, I didn't do it. Dave did it." And I [00:43:00] got sent to the principal's office for doing the right thing, and I was so angry in first grade And I felt helpless in first grade, right? So what happens when I'm an adult with an unresolved trauma of little T?
I'm an adult, I did the right thing. I helped Joe, I helped his audience, I was consistent, and I got punished for it. And it brought up the feelings of anger and helplessness of first fucking grade from something that had left my consciousness 30 years ago.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So I did the reset process on that. And as I did the reset process, it was like the whole situation with Joe and all the, the stuff, it just like shrunk to this little thing.
It just went away, and then it became really clear, just what you said, every time Joe Rogan says, "Dave's a bad man," I just make more money. So what I should have done was gone right back on X now, and Twitter at the time, and just been like, "Joe, your mom doesn't say I'm a bad man." That would've been the right response.
Literally made fun of Joe Rogan's mom.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Because it... Like, let's pick a fight, dude. Yeah. Let's be as public as we can. Bulletproof at the time, now Danger Coffee. But [00:44:00] because it's childish. This is... He's, he's a comedian.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: Right? He's not dumb. He just plays like he's dumb, but he's a comedian. And I'm actually, well, I'm pretty smart.
I, I know my shit. You- And I don't lie ... you are very smart. I never lie.
Hala Taha: So you forgave him.
Dave Asprey: Mm-hmm.
Hala Taha: What... Sometimes we think that we forgive people, but we're actually haven't really done the work. What,
Dave Asprey: what do you mean sometimes? Very few people have ever forgiven someone.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: I mean, it's an advanced spiritual skill to forgive someone.
This is why Jesus practiced it for all that time. "Forgive them. They know not what they do." Um, most people, I would say 99% of the time, forgiveness is, "I decided to forgive them." Mm. It's a cognitive process that happens in the mind. In reality, no forgiveness happens in the mind. It is all in the body.
Forgiveness is an altered state, like a psychedelic state or like an orgasmic state. It... You don't live in a state of forgiveness unless you're very, very special. Um, you can live in a state of [00:45:00] compassion, which is what Buddhism teaches, and compassion is, "I automatically wish other people well before I can judge them," and that's also an advanced skill.
Forgiveness is harder, but you don't always live in forgiveness.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Because once you've developed compassion, very few people can trigger you anymore.
Hala Taha: So you've truly forgave somebody if you don't get the triggers resulting of whatever that trauma was.
Dave Asprey: If a person that you think you've forgiven walks into a room And you have no reaction internally.
Your heart doesn't- Mm ... change even a little bit. You don't clench your jaw. You don't change your breath. And if we were measuring stress response, uh, which we can now on your skin, you wouldn't see any change. You'd be like, "Oh, it's, you know, it's good to see you." Right?
Hala Taha: How do you think about gratitude with forgiveness?
And is, is there anything with the Joe Rogan situation that you actually feel grateful for?
Dave Asprey: Oh, I'm so happy you asked. In the reset process, you cannot enter the state of forgiveness without finding gratitude first. And [00:46:00] I've worked with, with people, uh, who've been tortured in war, like the most horrific things, doing the 40 Years of Zen program.
And entrepreneurs, a lot of them actually, who've been through childhood trauma, like pretty complex and, and just abhorrent things. And I've looked them in the eye and said, "If you wanna let that go permanently and forever, you have to find one good thing that happened."
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And the cool thing about gratitude is your body's dumb.
It doesn't understand time or magnitude or space. It doesn't understand there's refrigerators or police officers or whatever. It, it's just like reactive, real time emotional flopping all over the place until you train it So you just tell your, uh, y- you can tell your nervous system whatever you want when you do this, and for gratitude, it just has to find one good thing.
Yeah. Doesn't matter what it is. You can literally be in a car accident and lose a leg, and, "Um, I'm so grateful I have my other one." Boom. Mm-hmm. You found gratitude. It, it's not hard.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: But seeing the [00:47:00] gratitude is actually very difficult.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: And you know what it takes to find gratitude? Curiosity.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And we all know what curiosity did. They say it killed the cat. It's 'cause curiosity takes you out of fear. So the reason that you're feeling triggered is ultimately fear. When you peel away all the lab- labels, there's some kind of fear that your mitochondrial network is signaling.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And so once you start going, "Huh, I wonder," then you're not afraid anymore, and then you say, "Oh, it turns out there was this tiny little sliver of goodness amongst all the crap."
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Okay, now you're primed to do the reset process and actually forgive the person, and the forgiveness is you change the state of your body, not the state of your mind.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: So most people, "I forgave." No. What you did is you told someone you forgave them, and you decided that you forgave them, and you're holding onto all the crap in your heart and in your body and in your gut, and that crap is the biggest energy leak for all humans all the time.
Hala Taha: Yeah. Sometimes our triggers aren't from something that happened personally. So for example, I'm Palestinian. Mm-hmm. So I feel like with the last [00:48:00] three years, I probably have so much, like, trauma and things that I need to forgive the world for and release so that it doesn't show up in my leadership and my entrepreneurship.
All
Dave Asprey: right. Can I be really triggering for you?
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: You have toxic empathy.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: Okay?
Hala Taha: I'm sure I do.
Dave Asprey: So do you know what toxic empathy is?
Hala Taha: W- when you just feel... Like, you... I do have toxic empathy. You know what it is. Yeah. Like, I know for a fact, like, I'm so c- Yeah. You can, you can explain it for-
Dave Asprey: Okay ...
Hala Taha: I, I would like to learn more too.
Dave Asprey: So there's two paths that humans go down. When we're very, very young, okay, you're in a meat body that can't feed itself and- Mm-hmm ... poops on itself, right? And your networks in charge are like, "How do I make sense of this weird world? Like, there's air and light and, and Mom," and, and if you look at the brainwaves of a baby, it's all, like, the deepest brain, uh, like, sleepy states and then dreamy states, and you don't even really come out of the dreamy state until you're seven or eight.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: It, during that time, [00:49:00] it, it, you're not perceiving the world like normal. And you learn, "What do I have to do to be safe?" And one group of people learns, "I have to think to be safe. Thinking is the way." And the other group of people says, "I have to feel to be safe. Feeling is the way."
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So if you have an unsafe environment, then you learn, "Okay, I can earn love with my brain, and I can, I can think about whether someone's gonna hit me, and then I can avoid it."
And someone else will say, "If I could just feel everyone's feelings around me, then I can feel when something bad's gonna happen, and I can avoid it, and I can be safe."
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Right? Now, they're both trauma responses, right? So when people come in to 40 Years of Zen, these are all people who despite this, which is the human condition, are very successful.
It's about $20,000 to work with my whole team for a week. I think it's underpriced, but whatever. Like, it, it's very, it's very expensive to run but very valuable. So these people have some degree of economic success regardless of this, and the people are like, "Oh my gosh, I'm feeling everyone's pain," all that stuff, [00:50:00] they learn, "I don't have to feel pain."
And when you study spiritual stuff like Buddhism, they'll tell you empathy is better than no empathy, but it's a low-level state.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Because you wanna walk into Walmart and feel everyone's feelings? I don't think so. No. Right? 'Cause it's just a random wash of humanity. It's not... It's normal, and you're trying to be better than normal.
So the step above empathy is compassion, which is, "Oh, I automatically wish all these people at Walmart well. I'm not gonna judge them, even if they're on the People of Walmart webpage," which is the funniest thing ever if you've ever seen it. But, uh, the idea here is, okay, I just like, I have compassion, right?
That's healthy, and empathy is not so healthy- Mm ... because you're whipped around by other people's emotions all the time.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And then on the other hand, the people who are meat robots, which is where I was, like I will refuse to acknowledge my emotions Uh, because I don't comprehend them and because dealing with my emotions is unsafe, I can just think my way out of them and therefore I will earn love.
But th- for them to crack through into their emotions is, [00:51:00] ah. I did that when I was about 30 at a personal development retreat. It took like seven days before I would go, "I guess I have an emotion besides anger." Fine. So what's going on with you is partially that toxic empathy. And when people do a lot of their own, um, their own work on, on their adult experiences, on their childhood experiences, they'll go in three different directions.
Um, one of them is, um, pre and perinatal trauma. The experience of birth and what happened in the womb has effects that you can remember that are changing your personality today. I was born with the umbilical cord wrapped around my neck, and I had no idea the effects it had on me from a PTSD perspective- Mm
uh, until I did the work and was like, "Oh my God, I'm so glad I figured that out and let it go." Um, okay, so there's that. Then there's the generational trauma, and that could easily be a part of what you're dealing with.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: And I see this, um, in any part of the world where there's been conflict, uh, including like [00:52:00] Central Europe is full of this because every 60 years an army rides through and messes things up, and then it lasts for several generations.
Mm-hmm. You see it in the Middle East- Yeah ... very, very clearly. You see it, um, in the Muslim world, you see it in Jewish people. Um, lots of bad stuff has happened over the last 100 years. Um, I mean, we've got Lawrence of Arabia. All, all the things. Yeah. Right? So- Some people will just automatically like, "Okay, I cleaned out my own closet," like, oh my gosh, and they'll start doing work on their great-great-grandmother that they never do.
Mm-hmm. And then they feel these weird shifts in their body. This is more shamanism, but people do it themselves. Like, I'm trained in shamanic practice and a bunch of other stuff, but they're doing this with electrodes on their head. And the coolest thing is sometimes someone will like, you know, forgive a family member they haven't talked to in 20 years, and then that night they get a text from their long lost whatever going, "I don't know why, I'm just thinking about you."
Hala Taha: Oh my God.
Dave Asprey: It's, it... Not just once or twice, like hundreds of times to the point that we're all connected more than we think we are.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: And so your ability as a [00:53:00] leader of a company to just hold your space, it comes down to dealing with your generational trauma, with birth trauma, and what happened in the womb.
Was your mom safe? And all that sort of stuff. And then the freakiest thing that comes up, and I've had to deal with it myself, is past lives, which is not generational trauma, it's not this life, but you're like, "Why am I so angry at 14th century French people?" I, I... It doesn't matter why. The why is the reason, the meaning engine of your conscious thinking.
It's if it pops up in your m- just run a reset process on it, just let it go.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: Right? So I'll see people like, "Oh my gosh, I spent two hours today forgiving things from another lifetime, and I feel so much better." Now, is that real? I tend to think so. It doesn't matter. Did the person's state change, and did the beneficial change stick?
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And if so, then it worked. And I don't care if there's a belief system about it or not. What I do know is that 90% of people who go through 40 Years of Zen report relationship improvements-
Hala Taha: Yeah ...
Dave Asprey: in a survey. Actually, it's approximate. It's like 89-point-something. [00:54:00] Um, there's, uh, and all the other markers of, uh, psychological health and performance go up more than 50% for all of the markers for people who go through.
So wow. That's so
Hala Taha: cool.
Dave Asprey: Forgiveness is a performance-enhancing process, but only if it actually works. On the contrary, if you cognitively forgive someone, now you're creating a schism in reality for yourself. You say that you forgive the person, but you don't feel that way. And if you wanna be a terrible leader, show up with a lack of authenticity and congruence.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And I've never seen a leadership book about congruence, but this is what happens, and my, my therapist of 10-plus years, uh, has actually said, "Dave, you're the most congruent client I've ever worked with," which to me is a really good compliment. Yeah. What that means is that my inner state and my outer state are aligned, right?
And when you're a leader, if you're losing your [00:55:00] mind and you get in front of the troops and you're like, "All right-" Everything's fine, but everyone knows it's not fine because it's not the tells, it's not what you're doing, it's that you're sending out magnetic vibes we can measure, and you're sending out quantum vibes that you kinda can measure but are harder to sense, and probably some biophotons.
Like, there's a lot... And pheromones, and God knows what else. So we have a sense that, that we're lying. You know what I'm talking about? Can you tell when someone's bullshitting you?
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Well, you're a woman. You guys have an unfair advantage. Seriously, women are more intuitive than men on average, um, because you have to rely on intuition- Mm-hmm
for safety, and guys are like, "We have muscle." Mm. "We are
Hala Taha: safe. We have rocks."
Dave Asprey: You know? So, um, your, your team can feel this too. It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman in leadership. If you can walk up and you can say something that is internally true and externally true, you have their attention. And over the years of advising and coaching entrepreneurs, one of my favorite questions is, people come up and say, "Dave, how can I be more authentic?"
You can't act authentic. [00:56:00] You, it, it's like you have to make your inside and your outside line up. Mm-hmm. And that's what meditation and breathwork and all the spiritual side, the consciousness side of biohacking is about. And it's why, um, not only do I run the biohacking conference here in Austin, which is called Beyond Biohacking, um, the largest and oldest biohacking conference, and 5,000 people.
Joe Dispenza's spoken there twice, and leaders where some of our speakers are about that, but also about the Wondaland Conference, which we're bringing to Austin in October. And the Wondaland Conference is the second-largest psychedelic conference- Mm ... uh, in the world. Um, Rick Doblin from MAPS, uh, who's a hero and a friend, is speaking, and it's a consciousness conference where we do psychedelic, uh, speakers as well as other technologies for consciousness.
'Cause if you're an entrepreneur, you better learn how to hack your internal state. Otherwise, you will literally tear yourself apart in the process of succeeding.
Hala Taha: Yeah. I was just... I was literally just about to ask you [00:57:00] about psychedelics, so I'm glad that you brought it up. Because I feel like one of the hardest things to do is actually to, like, remember your trauma and try to understand, like, where these triggers are coming from, and it seems like certain drugs can kind of unlock that for people.
Can you explain why?
Dave Asprey: Yeah. Your, your brain has something called the default mode network. And "Heavily Meditated," if you're interested, has a whole chapter on psychedelics and how and why this works. Again, it's okay if you don't buy the book. Mm-hmm. I just want you to know where to go for more info. So the default mode network, um, in neuroscience is pretty much what, what allows the ego to express itself.
So when you take something like ketamine, which is what we use at 40 Years of Zen, um, as an option for neuroplasticity, not classically a psychedelic, but similar, similar neighborhood, or psilocybin or LSD, um, or even, uh, something like DMT. By the way, I'm about to [00:58:00] go do like a four-hour DMT session. That's gonna be kind of cool.
They're
Hala Taha: gonna- Right after this?
Dave Asprey: Uh, it's sometime in the next couple months. Oh, cool. We're gonna do like a whole, like an episode of a TV series on it. Mm. Um, because normally it's an eight-minute journey, but I'll do it for a few hours and see what happens. Anyway, all these disrupt default mode network signaling so that your ego shuts the hell up, and then you get to see the world the way your mitochondria see the world.
It's pretty interesting. Like all the patterns, um, all the, the colors, all the memories, all the connection, it can come back. However, a great number of people end up reliving past traumas when the ego turns off, and they say, "Oh, I had a bad trip." No, you didn't have a bad trip. You relived a trauma. So you can let it go.
If you have the right set and the right setting and the right facilitation support, you have the opportunity now that you've become aware of it to actually work on letting it go.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: I've seen very few people permanently let things go with [00:59:00] psychedelics. It's not impossible, and I, I've done everything but combo at this point.
Um, but you can, you can lighten the load. Um, but without like a deep forgiveness that's embodied-
Hala Taha: Mm. ...
Dave Asprey: it's, it's very hard to do. And the difficult thing with psychedelics is that 90% of what happens, you don't remember. So even if you forgive in a, in an altered state, if you don't have full recollection of it- Mm
you don't necessarily get the full benefits of it. So I, I am actually a fan of, of mindful psychedelic use, and I've been to Burning Man a dozen times, so I might use them for fun on occasion. But, um, if you're using them, uh, recreationally, you're probably not getting the benefits, and if you don't have a facilitation process, it doesn't work.
And the way we use ketamine at 40 Years of Zen is we do one journey day, and before and after there's training, and afterwards there's facilitation. And the role of a facilitator at [01:00:00] 40 Years of Zen is to make sure that you remember everything. And then when you go in and you're doing neurofeedback sessions, which feel like you're on psychedelics, but it's just you and your brainwaves, you come out and you talk about it.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Imagine like if you had a dream last night. Uh, did you have dreams last night?
Hala Taha: I, I, dreaming about this interview and making sure- Wow ... I do good.
Dave Asprey: Great. And you remember it?
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Okay, cool. Most people, though, don't remember their dreams unless someone asks them to remember it. I
Hala Taha: was like maybe not fully sleeping well.
Dave Asprey: Okay, cool. But, but you know what I'm talking about.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Right? So, so people will forget their dreams. Mm-hmm. Like, "God, I had the best dream," and, and you don't know. So it's the same with psychedelic journeys and it's the same with meditation, and that's why I have a team of trained facilitators, a team of neurotechnicians and scientists.
So you come out and like keep wearing the TrueDark glasses. They keep your brain, in published medical studies, they keep your brain in a meditation state. And then let's talk and let's get it out there. Let's take notes. Let's structure the tools so you can do it better, and that's why, and we have a wait list, uh, for a $20,000 program because it saves [01:01:00] you- So cool
40 years of meditating every day. And if you're an entrepreneur-
Hala Taha: I'm gonna do your program. I'm so in.
Dave Asprey: Oh, you, you have to.
Hala Taha: I
Dave Asprey: wanna
Hala Taha: do it ASAP.
Dave Asprey: You're a, you're running a big enough couple companies. Oh, yeah,
Hala Taha: yeah.
Dave Asprey: It, it, all it does All you have to think about is one time that you made a really bad decision because you were emotional.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: Right?
Hala Taha: Especially as a woman, we get very emotional.
Dave Asprey: You know, you'd be surprised. Um, men and women both get emotional, just you show it more.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: We get emotional, we just sit on it and grit our teeth- ... and, and just chew it up and digest it, and then, like, feel it in our bodies and we get old and fat and angry.
You ever see that movie Grumpy Old Men?
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: That's like a documentary on testosterone deficiency and lack of forgiveness. But, um, we, we all do feel it, um, and women express it more. And some of the hardest clients at 40 Years of Zen are men who are like, "I do not know how to feel my feelings."
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And this is, to me, like, like [01:02:00] sacred work because when I was 30, I was at a personal development retreat doing holotropic breathwork, which is a replacement for LSD.
Like, it is hardcore breathwork.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And I was like, "Okay, I, I'm not, I'm not understanding. There's all these people, they're making all these sounds. There's people also with, like, wiffle ball bats, like hitting pillows and yelling." I'm like, "This is the stupidest thing I've ever seen." But I couldn't stand to be in the room.
Like, the sound of it just drove me nuts, so I went outside and the facilitators, um, bless them, uh, they came out like, "Why, why are you outside?" I'm like, "I can't stand the sound of all these people yelling and wailing and whatever." This is my first personal development thing in my life. I was like way out, way in the deep end.
And so they, they brought me in. It took three facilitators and pillows acting like weighted blankets on me so I could just lay there, right? And I'm like, "I am a rational computer science human being. I'm, you know, successful. Like, what is up?" And this wise woman looks at me and she goes, "Are you feeling anything?"
I said, "Yeah, I'm feeling pissed off 'cause this is dumb." And she [01:03:00] said, "Anything else?" I said, "Well, there's a weird feeling in my stomach." She goes, "Hmm, that's fear." And I looked her right in the eye and I said, "There's nothing in here for me to be afraid of, therefore it's not fear." And she looked at me and she kinda giggled, and she goes, "Fear is an emotion.
Emotions don't have to have reason." And I was like, "Oh my God." "Why did I not think of that? My body has emotions that make no freaking sense."
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: But before that, my whole model of reality was that it can't be that emotion, 'cause why would it be there?
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So just understanding that. So g- we guys have it, but I was completely ignoring everything below my neck, and I don't anymore.
And so women, you typically have to pay attention to things below your neck because they change all the damn time. Mm. Right? You have a monthly cycle, you have a daily cycle, and like, it, it's a lot. So women's intuition, though, is very important for entrepreneurs, and I'm gonna talk about that if- Okay, yeah
if we have time for it. So- If, if you believe what I'm saying about [01:04:00] mitochondria being basically antennas on reality, that they sense reality first, they make a, a group decision with each other about what they're gonna pass on to the nervous system and ultimately to your brain, well, then the areas with the most mitochondria would be the most sensitive- Hmm
to the environment. So in men and women, we have 15,000 mitochondria in our brain cells and our heart cells, okay? And that's where it tops out Oh, except in women. You have about 600,000 mitochondria in your ovarian tissue.
Hala Taha: Wow.
Dave Asprey: So the seat of intuition in women is the reproductive system. You also have a lot of nerve endings in other parts of your reproductive tract, right?
So, and I've interviewed top OBGYNs and top female spiritual leaders about this, and more than one of the spiritual leader types has literally looked at me and said, "Intuition is in my pussy." And I'm like, "I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna dis- I, uh, okay, I, I... Okay, yes. I believe you. I'm not gonna disagree with that, right?[01:05:00]
So when you're dealing with, like, advanced Daoism and things that are in my, my wheelhouse, uh, when you first start working with a spiritual teacher, you'll see them do this.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: Okay? They're activating qi in their hands. We have a lot of nerve density in our hands. And then as they start learning, they start feeling it in their feet because you have the second-most nerve endings in your feet.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Right? And then the true masters, when they're walking into a room, they feel hands, feet, and groin.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Because it's a very sensitive area, and this is noth- it has nothing to do with sex at all. It has to do with I'm aiming all the antennas in my body to get an intuitive sense, but guys are much worse at getting intuitive sense in our reproductive tract than women are.
I think it has to do with reproductive safety. I don't know. But if you're a male entrepreneur, you had better know the two women on your team who are most intuitive, and hopefully your spouse or partner is also intuitive, and you listen to what they say.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Because they will tell you, "That guy's a [01:06:00] douchebag."
And you're like, "But I like that guy." It doesn't matter. If a woman who has shown that she's intuitively trustworthy tells you someone's a douchebag, then just don't work with them. Mm. It's not worth it. Like, these are your team. And the reason that I'm still here as an entrepreneur today, I have two women on my team, Rebecca and Miranda.
They just moved to Austin. Welcome, ladies. Um, 14 years of supporting me, and they're both intuitive. Mm. And the number of times in the last especially 10 years after I learned this when, like, "I just don't like that guy or that woman." Like, "They're not good." My assistant, uh, Christine, same thing. "I don't like that one."
Every time I've hired someone she didn't like, I regretted it immensely.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: So listen to intuitive women, and if you're a guy, you have a different kind of intuition. You, you have it. It's, it's just very, very different, and your intuition, it, it'll be in the same place. It, it'll be in your hands and your feet and in your reproductive tract.
So if you walk into a room or someone else walks into a room and your balls climb up inside you, it probably should tell you [01:07:00] something. That's a protective thing that your body is doing- Mm ... to tell you. It just, you have to listen to the body. The body knows.
Hala Taha: It's so interesting. And then when we think about those five Fs that you were mentioning and fertility, it's no wonder that women are making so many decisions- Yeah
around fertility. And even if you're not realizing it, that th- this decision you're making of who you're dating or what job you're taking or whatever might be, like, a fertility decision that you're not even realizing.
Dave Asprey: It is so crazy, uh, the way things work. Um, like the way a guy smells. Not smells because, you know, you're smelling his armpit or something-
but just in the room.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Your body will pick up the fact that he has, uh, uh, DNA that's compatible with yours, a, a haplotype, and he'll smell good to you. Mm. But it won't be a conscious smell, and then you'll start talking to him, and then you'll flip your hair and do all the things that you do, and you won't even know why you're doing it.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: This is how mitochondria manipulate us all the time, right? Problem is, if you're on the birth control pill, that system gets hacked and broken- Mm ... so [01:08:00] it doesn't work, and then you might be attracted to the wrong guy. You go off the pill, and all of a sudden your husband is not attractive anymore.
Hala Taha: Oh, wow.
Dave Asprey: That's why for, geez, in
Hala Taha: 20- I'm anti-birth control pills. Yeah.
Dave Asprey: In 2011, I wrote my first book, which was on fertility, 'cause, uh, the mother of my children, former wife- Mm ... um, she was infertile when I met her, and she's a doctor. So did some biohacking, restored her fertility. W- my first book was about that.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And I s- went really deep on this, and birth control pills harm women so much, and access to birth control is a necessary right for women. Just the pill is harmful to women. Yeah. It's okay to say both at the same time. If you care about women, you should, you should say that.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: So yeah, I'm... It, it breaks relationships.
Hala Taha: Yeah. Okay, so back to mitochondria. I, I just wanna kinda close the loop on the fact that when you forgive, you get more energy because then your mitochondria can allocate energy- Yeah ... to different things other than your emotions, right? So- Amen ... can you, can you help people understand that better? Okay.
Dave Asprey: Every day you take about 30 pounds of air and some amount of food, you [01:09:00] combine them, and you make electricity and heat and some other proteins and stuff like that, and that's what runs your body.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: So right now, the average person's thoughts, about one third of their thoughts per day are about tacos.
Okay, or at least about food. Uh, so each of those thoughts took electricity. So imagine if, uh, like one of those times where your phone just slows down, and you're like, "What is going on here?" And you have to, like, close a bunch of open apps, and then it speeds back up.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: Well, everything that you haven't forgiven is an open app running in your brain, and all of these unprogrammed thoughts, they just take up energy, and that means you're not thinking about the business.
You're not acting with clarity. You're less conscious. It also means that the immune cells, whose job is to kill cancer cells, they don't have enough energy.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And the body is beautifully set up to run the most important on the to-do list to the least important in order, and it says, "I'm gonna prioritize not dying at the very top here-
and not dying now," right? "And I'm gonna make sure that we have [01:10:00] some kids and, you know, that we eat," and all this stuff. Folding proteins properly is pretty low on the list, so it's only gonna do that if you give it two things: enough energy and a safe environment for it to regenerate.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So if you're stressed all the time and out of energy, you have neither ingredient, and this is why so many entrepreneurs are like, "I will use my willpower and my biological energy to become successful.
I'm in my late 20s, early 30s." God, this was me. "I can burn the candle in the middle and at both ends, um, and I'm, I'm just gonna do it." So stress all the time- Uh, working out all the time, right? Because more m- more is better. That's not how it works. But, uh, so at the end of the day, they're completely blown out.
They might be successful. They're, they're constantly wired or tired.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: Uh, they're reactive. They don't know they're reactive, and they're grinding all the time, and it creates misery. It also creates broken teams, because then your team tries to do that, and then everyone in your company is all broken and, uh, like it's, [01:11:00] it's toxic.
And I know 'cause I've done it. So what you'd wanna do instead is recognize that your body responds to stimulus followed by recovery.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: And this is why I exercise for about 20 minutes a week. And like, I am like s- I'm on the cover of my book with my shirt off. I am- Yeah ... well, if you believe the calendar, which I don't anymore, uh, I'm actually 28% old-
'cause I'm gonna live to 180. But if you do the math, I'm 53 on the calendar. I am leaner and in better shape than any time in my life with less work than ever, and in business it's the same way.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Working more means you're a bad entrepreneur So-
Hala Taha: Yeah ...
Dave Asprey: people probably got pissed at that. Mm-hmm. But it's true.
Like, okay, you could have a high return on ad spend or a low return on ad spend. Which would you rather do?
Hala Taha: Low. Oh, sorry. High return on ad spend. I was
Dave Asprey: like, "What?"
Hala Taha: I'm sorry, I misunderstood. You- yeah. I thought you were saying low ad spend. I understood,
Dave Asprey: yeah. You, you wanna spend as little as you can- Yeah ... to get the [01:12:00] highest return.
Get the highest, yeah. That makes you good on... So why do you wanna work hard? No, you wanna delegate. You wanna work as little as possible so that the only thing that ever crosses your desk is something that no one else in your company can do. And when you have too many of those, you wanna hire someone who can do those things.
Mm-hmm. That's the path. And why do you think I have, I think it's eight companies in the portfolio right now? 'Cause I have hired good leaders, right? And I'm engaged with the companies, right? I'm spending a lot of time on, on Upgrade labs now. We've got one here in Austin. Have you been?
Hala Taha: No, I haven't yet. Oh
Dave Asprey: my gosh.
Um, I'm sure I can get you a free pass there.
Hala Taha: Yeah, I'd love to.
Dave Asprey: Yeah. And this is our, our AI longevity place where I can go for my 20 minutes a week of working out. And
Hala Taha: it's- Only 20 minutes a week you're working out?
Dave Asprey: I'm not joking. Most people hear me say 20 minutes a day. No, it's 20 minutes a
Hala Taha: week. I was...
I thought you were saying 20 minutes-
Dave Asprey: Look, look at my abs.
Hala Taha: Jeez.
Dave Asprey: Like...
Hala Taha: How is that possible?
Dave Asprey: AI. We've used AI to figure out what is the minimum signal to put into the body to cause it to grow muscles and get VO2 max. And [01:13:00] okay, get this, five hours a week, so an hour a day of spin class-
Hala Taha: Yeah ...
Dave Asprey: which is brutal.
Like, like you've got-
Hala Taha: Yeah, I work out literally six times a week in like heated classes and all this kind of stuff, and I love it.
Dave Asprey: Wow.
Hala Taha: But there has to be a better way.
Dave Asprey: So you're like a masochist.
Hala Taha: Huh?
Dave Asprey: So you're like a masochist?
Hala Taha: Well, I don't, I don't think so. I mean, the only thing I don't like about it is how often I have to wash my hair, but other than that, I love it.
Dave Asprey: I'm totally teasing you. You love it 'cause you're getting the stress hormones that feel good though.
Hala Taha: Yeah, and the community and all that.
Dave Asprey: Yeah. Yeah. The community is a big one. So, um, if you were to do five minutes, three times a week of our tech for cardio, you're gonna improve by 12%. What you're doing gets you a 2% improvement- Wow
over two months. So two months of consistent practice, five hours a week- 2%. 15 minutes a week, 12%.
Hala Taha: Oh my
Dave Asprey: gosh. So six times better in 15 minutes, and you brush your teeth for 15 minutes a week. So your cardio should take as much time as brushing your teeth. And if you're an entrepreneur, you want five hours a week back?
I did.
Hala Taha: Of- yeah, I was just gonna say- Yeah ... like that no wonder you're running eight companies. Yeah. You [01:14:00] don't have to exercise every day. Yeah.
Dave Asprey: And, and here's something else that happens when people start biohacking. They need an hour less sleep.
Hala Taha: Hmm. And
Dave Asprey: they just wake up fully refreshed, and you're like, "Oh my God, what just happened?
I- is, is everything okay? I thought I needed more sleep." No. If you need more sleep, it means you suck at sleep or you're sick. The people who live the longest get six and a half hours of sleep a night in three studies of more than a million people each over multiple years. So eight hours a night is for normal people.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: You wanna be someone who's so healthy, be like, "You know what? Unless I worked out heavy or drank or something, I don't really need eight hours. I just wake up and I'm good to go, and I don't need my coffee to get going." Okay?
Hala Taha: Interesting.
Dave Asprey: I run Danger Coffee. I've had c- I have a tat- tattoo of caffeine on my arm.
I love my coffee, and I used to need it to function.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Now I just love my coffee. I literally wake up before my alarm clock. This morning I woke up 15 minutes before my alarm, ready to go.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: I couldn't do this until I was over 40 years old because I [01:15:00] didn't understand that I was stimulating too much and recovering not enough.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: It's called being kind to yourself.
Hala Taha: Yeah. So we've talked about a lot of the internal things that we need to regulate to reduce energy leaks. We're, we're moving into environment. We talked about exercise. Mm-hmm. Uh, something I wanna talk about is light. You, you talk about this concept of- Oh, that's a big one
of junk light. By the way, how much time do you have so that I know?
Dave Asprey: I'm
Hala Taha: just gonna double-check. 'Cause if not, then I'll probably... I wanna end with a game, so I wanna have time for that. Well, let's see. So it's totally
Dave Asprey: fine. It's 11... I was just thinking, we've been going for a while and this is so fun. Um, I am supposed to be home at Hmm.
I think it's only about a half hour if I speed. One, two... Why don't we go for, like, another 15?
Hala Taha: Okay, cool.
Dave Asprey: Yeah, that, that should be good. Okay,
Hala Taha: cool.
Dave Asprey: Thanks for-
Hala Taha: Of course. Okay, so we've talked about internal triggers that can cause energy leaks. Now we're moving into external environmental triggers.
Dave Asprey: Oh, big one.
Hala Taha: One thing that we did [01:16:00] not talk about yet is light, and I see you've got these, uh, for those of you watching on YouTube, he's got these yellow glasses, uh, that, that block- Yeah ... uh, junk light is what you call it.
Dave Asprey: These are the coolest glasses on the planet. I started TrueDark 10-plus years ago, and we block only the bad spectrum of blue and let the good stuff through.
If you wear blue blockers, the, the ones you buy online from anyone other than TrueDark, what you're getting is something that blocks all of the blue light. You need blue light to wake up and function during the day. Mm-hmm. If you block blue light, you will, you will break your circadian biology. So I'm blocking underneath a specific wavelength of light with these, and these are the first all titanium custom-made from scratch frames.
I worked for like six months on these, and they have the little side shields. They
Hala Taha: look cool.
Dave Asprey: They're so cool. And the ones for jet lag, we have actually, um, published a study in a medical journal showing that 15 minutes of wearing the TrueDark glasses puts your brain in the same state as advanced meditation.
So [01:17:00] you wear it for 15 minutes and you want to go to sleep.
Hala Taha: Oh, cool.
Dave Asprey: I don't get jet lag anywhere on the planet. I can fly to Dubai and I'm completely good as long as I have my TrueDarks.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So it's, it's been life-changing for me. I, I just start companies that make things I can't buy. Yeah. Things that should exist but don't.
So this is one.
Hala Taha: It's a good plan. Uh, man, next time you come on, we're gonna have to talk about category creation and how to- Oh, yeah ... and just like biohacking and entrepreneurship. That will be the next episode. But today-
Dave Asprey: Mm-hmm ...
Hala Taha: we're running out of time, and I do wanna play a fun game- Ooh, okay ... that I think is gonna work really well on social.
Okay? It's called Biohacking Confessions.
Dave Asprey: Ooh, sounds-
Hala Taha: And I want-
Dave Asprey: Sounds scary.
Hala Taha: We got about 15 minutes left, uh, and I want you to just answer the questions in terms of like what comes up for you in your gut.
Dave Asprey: Okay.
Hala Taha: You can be like kind of quick. I'll ask any follow-ups if I, if I want more information. Uh, but are you ready for Biohacking Confessions?
I'm ready. Okay. What is your current age?
Dave Asprey: Well, I identify as being about [01:18:00] 35, 28%, or if the government is asking in their outdated ways, I'm 53.
Hala Taha: How old do you hope to live?
Dave Asprey: I'd like to die at a time and by a method of my choice, and that would be at least 180.
Hala Taha: Has that changed with AI at all?
Dave Asprey: Uh, I actually made up that number because of AI.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And that number just comes from our current best is 120, and I just want 50% better than our current best, and I have 100 years to do it. Um, did you hear last month they announced they cured Type 1 diabetes?
Hala Taha: Hmm. No.
Dave Asprey: Kind of a big deal.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: Yeah. So we're-- Like, all of the diseases of aging are dropping like flies right now.
I've done gene therapy. I run something called Unlimited Life, which is for high-level entrepreneurs who are all in on extending their lifespan, and we've got about 100 members in this, uh, where I go through their lab work. A doctor who's worked on two heads of state is my business partner in it. Mm-hmm.
The guy who runs the Dalai Lama Foundation, [01:19:00] um, and, uh, MrBeast Foundation is the other partner. So high-level stuff. We take them to the jungle to learn from a shaman, to do longevity work. We take them to Kenya, um, and we do about $50,000 worth of lab work on all of them. Hmm. So when, when I say that, I, I don't say it lightly.
Like, I'm actively engaged in longevity. I've written a New York Times bestselling longevity book. We are cracking the code right now. I've done gene therapy. I just reprogrammed my stem cells in New Jersey last week, uh, and I've probably had more stem cells than anyone on the planet. So yeah, we can do this.
I'm just an early example of it, but if you're under 35 right now, you have such an unfair advantage because you haven't aged as much as I have while we were inventing all this shit.
Hala Taha: Hmm. Do you believe you're aging backwards?
Dave Asprey: Some of the systems in my body are aging backwards quantitatively. Um, others, no.
Hala Taha: Hmm. What, what, what is not aging backwards?
Dave Asprey: Um, I don't have good data on my brain. I like [01:20:00] to think-- I mean, it's functioning very well, but I, I'd like to think that it's aging backwards, but I just don't know how to measure that. And some parts of my skin are aging backwards right now, and others aren't.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: Um, so I'm working on that one.
Hala Taha: What, what's proving that you're aging backwards?
Dave Asprey: It depends on which system you're measuring, but there's something called DNA methylation, and this is a measurement of about 600,000 different DNA methylation points. Um, it's called an aging clock, and we can now do organ-specific aging clocks.
Hala Taha: Hmm. What is your most extreme-- what was your most extreme self-experiment?
Dave Asprey: This is a toss-up. Years ago, when my gut was just wrecked, I didn't know what was going on before I invented the term biohacking.
I ordered a pill from Russia. It was an electrical stimulator pill [01:21:00] about this big.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: And you swallowed it. Had a little battery in it, and it would stimulate every five seconds your entire GI tract to increase the strength of your intestines. I really had a lot of health problems when I was young. 15 years of antibiotics, you can imagine.
I'm like, I just don't wanna have a wrecked gut. So like, bzz, bzz, bzz. And then it gets stuck somewhere, probably descending colon, and I'm sitting there like in meetings and I'm like kicking- ... kicking and it, and it doesn't move. And so I get up and I'm jumping up and down trying to get it to, I'm laying on my side.
Eventually it did come out, and the instructions are like, "You could wash it and put, and take it again." I'm like, "Fuck that." So I, I threw it away. But yeah, I swallowed an electrical stimulating pill 20 years ago.
Hala Taha: What was the most expensive experiment that you've ever done?
Dave Asprey: Well
I spent about $7 million building a neuroscience lab so that I could improve my own brain. [01:22:00]
Hala Taha: And get better brain data like you're wishing.
Dave Asprey: Better brain data and just to have my brain work better. And fortunately, I turned it into 40 Years of Zen, um, where, you know, we've written millions of dollars worth of our own, um, hard- our own software.
We've developed hardware just, and not about diagnosing what's wrong. It's about how do we increase people's ability to access altered states that are part of the, part of the human birthright- Mm-hmm ... that we just don't know how to get to anymore.
Hala Taha: Okay, this one's a funny one. Who is your biohacking bestie?
Who's your best friend in this space?
Dave Asprey: You know, this is an interesting one. I have so many just, just amazing friends. Um, but one of my favorites is actually here in town, um, Dr. Anne Shippy. Um, she just wrote a book, um, about preconception, was just on my show. We've been dear friends for about 15 years, and she's, I would say, the [01:23:00] top environmental doctor in the country.
And, uh, we get together a couple times a month and have brunch.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Cute. And just go through all the biohacking stuff, the psychedelic stuff, the meditation stuff. Uh, and so she's like soul family. Uh, and because she's a IBM chemical engineer turned medical doctor, we can just nerd out at the deepest levels.
Mm. She's just so freaking smart. So we hang out a lot. Um- Mm. I think, yeah, just from a... There's nothing I can say that she won't be like, "Okay, I see that in my patients." Like- And, you know, plus she's just a, just a dear friend.
Hala Taha: Who's your biohacking frenemy? Somebody that you respect them, but they're kind of your competitor, too.
Dave Asprey: Well, biohacking started with 100 people in a bar in San Francisco in, what was that? 2012, the first event. So-
It's, it's on track to be a $200 billion industry by 2030 according to the latest [01:24:00] analysts. It started a $200 billion industry. How can you have enemies in an industry that's going from zero- Mm ... in 2012 to $200 billion over the course of, what is that? 20 something years. It's nuts. So the, there's no reason to have, uh, frenemies, and if I'm feeling that way towards someone, I need to do more reset.
Because if I'm- Mm-hmm ... feeling frenemy energy, it means that I'm wasting my electrons.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So I'm just gonna serve the people who are interested in what I have to say and I'm gonna do to the best of my ability. And if someone else is doing a better job, um, then, you know, blessings on them. And, and like an example, um, Andrew Huberman, uh, I had him on my show before he was a known entity.
Mm-hmm. 'Cause I, I find people before they blow up, and I've been, uh, after 1,400 episodes, I have a pretty good track record of that. Um, had him on, and he talked about, you know, the Stanford Human Performance Lab. I'm like, "That is so cool." I didn't know when I had him on that the Stanford Performance Lab was an [01:25:00] empty room at Stanford that they weren't doing anything in.
Mm. Um, but he has gone on to, well, very largely support things like nicotine and the red TrueDark glasses and the other things, uh, that I've pioneered. So having a Stanford professor say, "This is good stuff," is awesome. But what Andrew does that I very much respect, he's a teacher. Mm-hmm. I ran a program at the University of California for five years, um, for web and internet engineering.
So, so I understand what a good teacher is and isn't. Mm-hmm. He teaches very well. Yeah. And, and he does that one thing, and, uh, sometimes I think, "You know, if I just did more teaching, but then I'd have to quit all my other eight companies- ... and focus on that." So I think he's, he's done a great job of introducing people.
Some of his guests are not so good, um, I would say. And there are a couple, uh, a couple... So I'm not gonna call them frenemies, I'm just gonna call them bullies, right? And I have no problem, um, with bullies in general, like emotionally. I just think they're fun [01:26:00] toys.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: So there's guys like BioLane. Have you heard of this guy?
Hala Taha: No.
Dave Asprey: So apparently he has like a million followers, and he's like, "I have a PhD in..." I don't know what he has a PhD in, um, but I did ask his mom. So anyway- ... um, BioLane did this, this video recently, and this is the reason I'm telling you guys this. As entrepreneurs, you need to know. I heard a camera stop recording.
Yeah. Uh,
Hala Taha: did a camera stop recording, Bryce?
Dave Asprey: I think we have the 90-minute thing
Hala Taha: I- uh, all the cameras good or no?
Dave Asprey: Um, one of the cameras beeped. I think I think the, the thing is full or it stopped recording
We both got that like right away.
Hala Taha: Yeah. So- That's like the, the sound of doom.
Dave Asprey: Yes. That's a good story. You're gonna laugh your butt off.
Okay, cool. We, we stopped right when it beeped, so
Hala Taha: I'm
gonna put
on
lip
gloss while you do [01:27:00] that. Um, and I know we're like... Good, I'm gonna rub Question. You, you gotta leave in like five minutes
Dave Asprey: or so I'm gonna make sure All right. It is, uh, you know, I, I'll be all right even if we... 144. Yeah, I, I, I could be a little bit flexible.
Hala Taha: Okay.
Dave Asprey: Even if it's 10, I'll do it, but-
Hala Taha: Okay, cool.
I'll try my best to.
Dave Asprey: That's okay. Um-
Hala Taha: So you were talking about, um- Okay ... this guy with a million followers by a million.
Dave Asprey: And I just made a joke about his mom, right?
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: So BioLayne records this video. He's like, "Dave Asprey's here in his piss-stained glasses, and he said something I don't like." Now, BioLayne's one of these, like, dying breed of, uh, like, calorie trolls, where he's like, "If you just work out more and eat less, you'll lose weight."
It... This advice has been so disproven, uh, by many people, including me, uh, to the point that it's just laughable. You can't cancel out a, a Snickers bar with a [01:28:00] diet soda. But, you know, but this arguing way of just picking on the person instead of the idea, it's so fifth-grade bullying.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: So I'm like, "Oh, I have a bully to play with."
So... And, um, here's what I, here's what I did. I reposted his troll video on my Instagram, and then I did a, a stitch on top of it, and I said, "Hey, BioLayne. Thanks for being such a big fan. And I'd like you to know that in addition to apparently being piss-stained, my TrueDark glasses block blue light under-
490 nanometers, which is the wavelength that causes a bunch of biological effects that you probably wouldn't understand, uh, because you don't have a PhD in it. Um, but to celebrate your fandom, people can get a discount code at TrueDark.com by using code BioLayne. I used his... I sold $10,000 that day, and if he posts again, and [01:29:00] BioLayne, please post again- Please do again
um, what I'm going to do is I will donate a portion of the proceeds to a nonprofit for victims of childhood bullying. Hmm. Because that's what he is. So am I angry about this? No. Do I think this is the funniest marketing I've done in so long, and maybe this is some Schadenfreude. It's just like, it's fun, and if you look at my social things, um, people are like, "Dave, you look old."
What do you think I'm gonna say? "That's not what your mom said." Right? I don't care. Like, then leave or don't leave. I just don't care because it doesn't trigger me at all. Mm-hmm. But it's so fun because what people usually say, "Oh my God, how dare you? You made a mom joke." I'm like, "Hold on. I thought we were doing fifth-grade bullying stuff.
Like, it's your turn." Like, how about I'm rubber, you're glue? Because what you're doing is juvenile. Mm-hmm. If you think what I'm saying is wrong, tell me what's wrong, and, like, let's talk. I, I love it. If you can tell me the hole in my theory and provide evidence, I'm gonna go down that rabbit hole 'cause I wanna know.
Like, I am looking for the perfection of understanding of biology in humans and of [01:30:00] psychology and the spiritual thing and the connection in the quantum realms, all of it. Hmm. So show me what I'm missing, please. Hmm. And I will thank you, and I'll send you some coffee, right? Um, so I learn from my followers.
But if you're gonna come in and just, like, and make fun of me, dude, let's play.
Hala Taha: Yeah. You're gonna fight back. Okay. What is your biggest biohacking industry ick?
Dave Asprey: Hmm.
Hala Taha: What gives you the ick?
Dave Asprey: You know, the, the biohacking industry ick that I get is from people who really are new to the field.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: And they, they kind of...
Some of them get religion. A lot of them just get, "I smell profits." You know, it's a growing industry- Yeah ... so it attracts entrepreneurs. But when people say, "I wanna be an influencer," but you're not an expert, that creates ick because I see people taking relatively good biohacking ideas and dumbing them down to the point they're harmful.
And I'm like, "Don't act like an expert if you're not an expert." [01:31:00] Yeah. Like, how many peptide influencers who have- Yeah ... one year of peptide experience are there? Oh, you read the- So many ... same stuff that everyone read? I've been on peptides for 15 years. Mm. Right? And I wrote a chapter about them in my book about the most common ones that have the most evidence, and there's all kinds of experimentation, and I love experimentation, but, like, some people are better experts than others.
So the, the idea of acting like an expert before you've really had a chance to learn.
Hala Taha: Mm-hmm.
Dave Asprey: The only reason I can do what I do is that for five years in my 20s, I was mentored by people in their 70s and 80s, the leaders in the longevity field, 'cause I worked at a nonprofit in the space. Mm. They taught me all this stuff so I could, I could refine it throughout my 30s, and I launched the biohacking movement when I was 39.
Hala Taha: Mm. Nicotine or nah?
Dave Asprey: Uh, for sure nicotine. Um, as far as I can tell, uh, my book, which one was it? Probably Superhuman, my longevity book. It was the first book [01:32:00] to talk about nicotine as a longevity molecule, and this was based on, I think his name is Dr. Paul Newhouse at Vanderbilt. I call him Dr. Nicotine. And I found his paper from 1986 showing that nicotine reversed Alzheimer's.
Mm. So I asked him to be on the show, and we talked about the effects of this. I flew out to Switzerland. I met with the chief, uh, of R&D at PMI, also known as Philip Morris. This was many years ago, and he's a mitochondrial biologist, not looking to push tobacco at all. We talked about mitochondrial uncoupling and nicotine.
So nicotine without smoking is a, uh, a very notable longevity compound. It mimics exercise, it increases cognitive function, it stops neuroinflammation, and it's been used medicinally for 400 years. I'm not saying you should pop massive Zyns all the time.
Hala Taha: I was gonna say, do you like Zyns?
Dave Asprey: Um, I like Alp better because they're pre-moistened and all that.
Uh, and you can use a patch, you can use a, a lozenge. Just don't [01:33:00] smoke and don't vape. That stuff is bad for you. Mm. And even the leadership team, um, at the big tobacco companies, and I have met with them because I'm an innovator in lots of fields, and they've succeeded now in removing smoking, uh, largely from Italy and Japan.
They found a better way to do it that doesn't cause, uh, lung cancer.
Hala Taha: Yeah.
Dave Asprey: It's called a heated tobacco product. So they actually recognize smoking's bad, but nicotine isn't bad, and I'm in that camp.
Hala Taha: Mm. So interesting. Okay. These are some what ifs.
Dave Asprey: Okay.
Hala Taha: Would you rather be guaranteed to live to 180, but you can't drink any coffee?
Would you, would you take that deal?
Dave Asprey: I, actually probably not. Um-
Hala Taha: Coffee means that much to
Dave Asprey: you? No, it's that I don't wanna be guaranteed to live to 180. I wanna die at a time and by a method of my choice. Mm. I am a freedom-oriented person. Mm. And most entrepreneurs are. Like, I am free to leave tomorrow if I'm done here, and I will do it without regrets.
Hala Taha: Mm. [01:34:00] Okay. Well then, I'm gonna change this next question. So would you rather have the freedom to die when you want to or get to go back to change the way you lived before you were 30?
Dave Asprey: Um, oh, I want the freedom to die, uh, at a time and by a method of my choice.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: I, you know, I suffered incredible amounts as a kid.
I mean, I was bullied a lot. I had autism.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Uh, and I don't meet the clinical criteria for autism anymore. You can heal it. I'm autism adjacent maybe. Um, but that just means I have a brain that does things, um, good things. Um, but all the physical stuff and all, um, I just figured out pretty recently that I actually have Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, which is more common than people think.
It's a hypermobility thing that's why I've had a leaky gut my whole life, 'cause my fricking collagen doesn't form right. Mm. It's also why I made collagen a billion-dollar industry. So that helps.
Hala Taha: Yeah, I mean, some of the things you suffered from, you ended up- Oh ... creating a whole cate- like you're, you became a biohacker- Oh, yeah
because you were unhealthy. So I guess- Yeah ... everything just happens for a reason.
Dave Asprey: If I didn't have toxic [01:35:00] mold and my weird genetics, there would be no biohacking. Mm-hmm. And so all that stuff, I don't regret it. I wouldn't change a thing.
Hala Taha: Mm.
Dave Asprey: Although I sure as hell suffered a lot, but...
Hala Taha: Dave, this has been so awesome.
I end my show with two questions I ask- Okay ... all of my guests. The first one is, what is one actionable thing our Young and Profiters can do today to become more profitable tomorrow?
Dave Asprey: Think about your team right now and think of the most annoying person on your team.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: Whatever came to mind, call them up and say you're fired.
Hala Taha: I love that advice. And what is your secret to profiting in life?
Dave Asprey: You better understand what currency you're dealing
with, and it's not money, it's energy.
Hala Taha: Hmm.
Dave Asprey: So if you end every day and you minimize the amount that you suffered, you maximize the amount of energy that you have, um, you'll really like your life, and you'll make a bunch of money. But if you focus just on money, you [01:36:00] will sell your health and you'll sell your energy, and you probably won't like the person you become.
Hala Taha: Hmm. So good. And where can everybody learn more about you and everything that you do?
Dave Asprey: I'm on all the social media things. I run the Human Upgrade podcast, and you can find me at daveasprey.com, along with 3,000 articles telling you how to hack everything you'd wanna hack.
Hala Taha: Amazing. Well, thank you so much for joining us on Young and Profiting podcast.
Dave Asprey: My pleasure.
Hala Taha: Great job.
Dave Asprey: Cool. That was fun.
Hala Taha: Cool.
Dave Asprey: I think you got some good sound bites in there.
Hala Taha: Yeah. Really, really good. I
Dave Asprey: was, I was aiming for them.
Hala Taha: Yeah, you did great.
I'm hoping that how to deal with trolls thing helps
Dave Asprey: a lot of people. Yeah. Just engagement. You-- I didn't say this part, but your followers, they love it when you do that 'cause you're not perturbed, like, "Oh my God, look what you just said."
Mm-hmm. And like, you get like hundreds of likes on it. It's just-
Hala Taha: And then they'll probably come to defend you too.
Dave Asprey: Oh, yeah, they totally do.
Hala Taha: Uh, let's take a picture. And
Dave Asprey: then- Let me grab Bryce ... did-- We should swap numbers.
Hala Taha: Yeah[01:37:00]
Dave Asprey: Sign in for the-
Hala Taha: Yeah ...
Dave Asprey: cool.
Hala Taha: All right. Uh, we're gonna do one standing
and one seated. What, what'd you want? Sure. I guess let's do seated first, I guess. Seated? And then we'll do standing, yeah.
Dave Asprey: You want microphones kinda like we're doing it?
Hala Taha: Yeah. I'll just-
So [01:38:00] podcast-y
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